Saturday, March 2, 2013

5 tips for a long distance relationship

Can long distance relationships really work? Well I'm in the process of finding out. Though my boyfriend and I both live in Chicago, he is currently at some sort of military camp for future marines, and next year I'll be moving away. So I thought I would share with you some of the tips that help me maintain a ling distance relationship. Keep reading for more information

1. Communication: No matter if you are in a long distance relationship or not, you will need good communication. Because you two will not be able to see each other in person, when you are sad or angry the other person will not be able to pick up on it as easily as if you were in person. There were plenty of days I would get mad at my bf for not caring that I was in a bad mood. Then I realized it wasn't that he didn't care, it was that he didn't know. And how could I expect him to? He is not a mind reader and can't read my thoughts through the phone. Try this: Instead of waiting for your significant other to ask what is wrong, tell them "I've been having a really bad day," or "you'll never guess what happened to me"

2. Romance: Just because you two are apart, it does not mean you have to stop being romantic. Go old school and send them a heart felt letter; send them a care package; email them a link to your favorite song. Just let them know that even though you two are miles apart, he/she is still on your mind.

3.Do things together: A way to feel connected is by doing the same thing at the same time. For example, do you usually go to the movies on Friday nights? Call up him/her and find a movie on TV that you both can watch, get some popcorn and watch it together.

4. Don't get mad so easily: Things happen. If you were supposed to meet up with your significant other, but something came up. Give them some slack because chances are they already feel guilty for not being able to see you. And put yourself in their shoes, would you want them making you feel worse for cancelling your

5. Stay positive: Don't dwell on the fact that you two never get to see each other. Use this time to explore new interests, and remember that your relationship will get better.

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